If knowledge is power, then why am I afraid of knowing? Fear is like dark shadows that linger behind
doors and can creep into our lives when we are observing our children’s challenges. Sometimes by “not knowing,” it gives us a
false sense of security that just maybe, a challenge doesn’t really exist. Such were the feelings of my friend this
weekend when she expressed a mix bag of emotions. On one hand having her child evaluated brought
some sense of relief that some of the issues that she had observed were not her
imagination. On the other hand, to have
a professional identify some potential challenges brought fear and anxiety to
her heart. The dark shadows of fear can
only be expelled by the light of knowledge.
Realizing that a challenge may be ahead empowers us to take control of possible
early interventions that can keep the challenges from growing into uglier
future situations. It also gives us
opportunity to bathe our child in prayer with more specific detail. We as parents must lay aside possible
personal fears and tackle head on issues with our children. After all, it’s really their welfare that’s
of utmost importance and our feelings can be dealt with later, not delaying the
best possible care for our children. So
let your light shine… on your child!
Patty-
ReplyDeleteI love your words. They are so true and so familiar. The fear that creeps in is so subtle sometimes, then it can take root. I have experienced that firsthand with my youngest, wondering what the future will hold. Making difficult schooling decisions right now. What a good reminder to take the scary things and turn them into something positive, an opportunity to pray and let God move and work.
Jenn Brown
Praying for you Jenn that as the expert of your child, you will have wisdom from God as you plan and direct the path for your son. Love to you.
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